What To Do When He's About To Kiss You

I was feeling a little bit inspired of writing something about going back to the times when I felt butterflies in my stomach. That awkward moment when you just don't have a clue of something that could have been or might been if you just take it a little bit further. So here are the things that might help you to respond to the famous "kissing signs" from your crush you just don't want to miss!

So you like him and there is no doubt that he likes you too, but you have not snogged him yet. Are you kidding me? Two persons liking each other is unlikely to just sit beside each other, talk and laugh and that's it! The mutual connection between you two, regardless what the relationship is or how deep or intimate it is, if you are feeling a little bit weird about the situation and you believe that both of you are alike in so many ways and you enjoy each other's company and you've never smooch, hey, what's wrong with you? Perhaps he is giving you the "lava palooza" sign already but you are just so clueless! I demand you to read on.

TIP: Don't fret! - This is the usual reaction to this situation. Girls in general worry about so many things. In this situation, they worry about how to kiss right or make use of their tongue, how long it should last and if their breath smells bad. This is not the right time for all those worries girl friends! Before you know it, your guy has already changed his mind while you figure the answers of all your questions.

Take note of these SIGNS and know WHAT TO DO for a smooth sailing ride of your FIRST KISS.

SIGN1: He has gone all sweaty and nervous.

What To Do: Make him feel comfortable. Guys normally get nervous just before attempting to steal a kiss from you. Why? Because they are scared that you'll reject them.

SIGN2: He keeps staring at your mouth / lips

What To Do: Well, there is something more effective than diving in to his mouth / lips. You need no rush. Keep him wanting it by smiling and flirt with your mouth.

SIGN3: He keeps telling you how nice your hair looks and touches it.

What To Do:  Apply the standard manner of saying a sincere "thank you" (if you're confident, this would not be too difficult) A common misconception of others is instead of saying thank you for a compliment they humble themselves by saying funny thoughts about like they've used a certain brand of shampoo or talks about  their favorite salon. Don't go about this bylines-- he'll just get bored!

SIGN4: He stares deep into your eyes -- even if you're not talking

What To Do: This will just make most girls off-guard! But keep your cool. Talk to him normally and at the moment of silence stare back for about 5-10 seconds. OMG this is it!

SIGN5:HE ASKED YOU TO JOIN HIM OUTSIDE FOR A WALK

What To Do: A walk should not be too far from the people you are with and not too dark. A guy who wants to kiss a special girl don't care if there is audience around. But not just too public.

SIGN6: He tells you that your lip-gloss smells nice and wants to try some!

What To Do: Give him two options: He can either try it from the tube or from your lips. It's up to you how to say it. But I find it cute if you do a little gesturing of your hands and lips for the options.

SIGN7: He leans in, invading your personal space...

What To Do:  Go for it girl!